How to attract success

by Alan Howard on March 5, 2012

in Manifesting, Relationships

Yesterday I wrote about some of the successes I’ve had in my life as a result of using the Law of Attraction. Today I’m going to write about how you can achieve some some of that success for yourself.

It’s not enough to just say you want something – you have to know exactly what you want. You can do this by writing about it.

Doing this will force you to think about exactly what you’re writing. You have to think about what your life would look like if your desired result is already here, whether it’s your ideal career, ideal partner, ideal holiday, or even an ideal car.

I’ll use an example of how I manifested my ideal partner into my life.

When I took the time to write down what my ideal relationship looks like, I wrote down the following:

  • What feelings I would have while being with her, and what her feelings are as well
  • What personality traits she would have
  • What behaviour we would both have with each other
  • What we expect from each other
  • What experiences we would have together

I described my ideal relationship with my ideal woman, and used as much vivid and descriptive detail as I possibly could. It’s important that you imagine everything about them, as well as about yourself in your ideal relationship. You have to know how it looks for both of you, so that you can create it for you both.

At the same time as I was writing it, I was also vividly seeing it, and vividly feeling it. And knowing that she was out there, just waiting for me to find her. Once I finished, I spent about 10 minutes just sitting there, feeling the reality of her in my life. And then I put my writing away and forgot about it, trusting that the universe would make it happen.

When you put all your energy into imagining a desired result, and taking the time to really visualise what that result will look like in your life, and then believing that the desired result will become a reality, amazing things happen.

You don’t need to worry about how the universe will give you what you want, you just need to focus on what it is, and then let it go.

The universe will work out all the finer details of how it will get to you.

If you try to focus on those finer details yourself, you get in the way of the universe working on the perfect way for your desires to reach you. You hamper the manifestation, and the results are never what you want.

Keep out of its way, and it will give you what you want.

I use this technique a lot, and it always works for me. Sometimes there’s challenges to achieving the desired result, but that’s only because I forget to get out of the universe’s way.

Give it a try for yourself, and let me know how you go.

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